Today the topic is crying and the teenage girl.
I don't like to be around crying teenage girls. Especially teenage girls who are crying over teenage boys. Get over yourselves.
I'M a teenage girl and I just broke up with a guy who I've been dating for 6 months- a long time in the high school world. Did I cry? No, I did not. Teenage boys are not worth spilt tears. Of course I was a little upset- we had been dating for 6 months and when you've known a person that long and all the sudden they're not in your life like they used to be, it's a little sad. But I didn't call my best friend and burst into tears about why it all fell apart and how I wish we were still together. I'm young and trying to have fun. I didn't expect to marry this kid, it was a fun little relationship that I knew wouldn't last forever. In high school, you can't take your love life too seriously- it's just not smart. I find that any of my friends who have boyfriends are distracted by it. They think about/talk about their significant other ALL THE TIME and little else. A boyfriend should not distract you from your every day life. You shouldn't stop doing things you did before just for your boy. Continue on with your daily life and if your new man blends in, well that's great. And if not- it's not a bad thing to work on a relationship as long as it's not too STRESSFUL. BOYFRIENDS CAUSE STRESS AND PAIN AND TEARS IF, AND ONLY IF, YOU GET TOO INVOLVED. I think all girls in high school would be much better off to NOT GET TOO SERIOUS- especially too soon. Come on, do you really think he loves you after you've been dating for 3 days? 3 weeks? Even three months is a stretch. Chances are, he's only telling you that so he can get into your pants, and I bet he isn't even worth it.
A few days ago, on my BIRTHDAY, a friend called me and was crying her eyes out, begging me to come over and comfort her because, boo hoo, she was having boyfriend trouble. It's not like I'm a cold-hearted bitch, I just don't get the whole teenage love thing. She's 17 years old- she's not in love. That's the kind of thing that only exists in the movies- and very rarely in real life. I know this girls boyfriend- he's not the kind of person that she could spend the rest of her life with and even she knows it. So why was she crying? Because she's a teenager. That's what teenagers do and I don't understand it. Teenage boys are the WORST. They really are not worth all the trouble. Sure, they're fun, and it's nice to have one there to comfort you occassionally, but until I am 25 years old and dating a guy for 2 years who turns around and dumps me for no reason, I will not cry over a boy.
GET OVER YOURSELF!
...AND THE GUY!
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